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How wonderful that your cartoons are traveling around the world and bringing feminist perspectives to young women! I so agree that we expect so much from our young ones. My partner does family childcare and does a lot of what she calls “benign neglect” - letting the toddlers do what interests them instead of scheduling time for art, music, reading, etc. for two-year-olds! It’s exciting to watch their curiosity and see them blossom into who they are, not who someone expects them to be.

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I totally agree! Well put, exactly!

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Think you're right, except for this: Not just girls but women generally -- in my experience -- are captive to inflated expectations. It's driven women to their equal and proper places in the world, thank goodness. But it comes with a psychological cost.

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Yes, totally agree with you. And expectations that are also gender-specific and body-specific.

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May 5, 2023Liked by Liza Donnelly

Wow! Story of my life. Wanting to be a doctor, as a female, meant not studying anything for fun in college. I couldn't afford lower grades while exploring outside of the sciences. So, I was definitely high achieving, as perfect as possible and very scripted. Learning to let go as I've grown older.

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Wow, is right! Glad you are learning to let go, I need to do more as well.

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